is this for real? or is it another urban legend? there is no way to
check its authenticity-- both the original letter or the response
(apparently from a sri lankan???)
perhaps they were both concocted.
The following article appeared in the NY Times.
Dear Editor:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Asian male
readers. I am a White female who is engaged to an Asian male,
good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of
Asian female's attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Asian women
were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too
mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too
much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I
was constantly approached by Asian men, willing to wine and dine me
and give me the world. If Asian women are so up in arms about us being
with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some
changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when
we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Asian men about
why we white women are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel
just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie
Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones,
James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Annan, Cuba
Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry
Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...!
I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is
why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women
because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn
from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong,
Asian men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
The Response:
Dear Editor:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Sri Lankan man. I
graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta ,
Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have
a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house.
So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful Non-White
men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want
to set the record straight of why Asian men date white women. Back in
the day, one of the biggest reasons why Asian men dated white women
was because they were considered easy. The Sri Lankan girls in my
neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict about
when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our
impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it
up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Asian males date white women because
they are docile and easy to control. A lot of Asian men, because of in
securities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by
the strength of our Asian women. We are afraid that our woman will be
more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Asian men look for a
more docile woman! . Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous
Asian men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control
and walk over their white women. .
I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl
to know that not all successful Asian men date white women. Non-Whites
like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut,
Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L.
Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women. And, to
flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot
light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White women over white women.
Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop
thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.
Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris
were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in
the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the
head with clubs.
Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to
cook and season your food. It was the Non-White woman that taught you
how to raise your children. It was Non-White women who were
breastfeeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the
Non-White woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands,
and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Asian women were born
with two strikes against them: being Non-White and being a woman.
And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the Asian women's strength, elegance, power, love and
beauty that I could never date anyone except my Sri Lankan Queen. It
is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It
is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colours and
shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most
appealing about Asian women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing
souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles,
their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their
determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while
enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with
Asian women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward
jealousy and envy than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do
you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are
so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale
skin?
Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with
unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting
to have what the Non-White woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk
over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am
looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and
mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and
understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate and;
unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed,
Sri Lankan Royalty
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